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Family Life Ministries

Family life covers so many aspects of all people'€™s lives. Marriage, marriage preparation, parenting, single life, empty nesters, adoption, being widowed, dying and death, and the list goes on. There are also a lot of connections between family life and social justice, catechesis, vocations, and every other aspect of our Catholic heritage. This page is dedicated to providing information about ministries that are active in the Diocese of Tucson and to providing information that relates to the topics above.

Links are provided solely for the user'€™s convenience. The Diocese of Tucson assumes no responsibility for these websites, their content, or their sponsoring organizations. For more information, contact either Joe Perdreauville at 520.838.2539 or by email jperdreauville@diocesetucson.org, or  Mike Berger at 520.838.2541 or by email mberger@diocesetucson.org.


Marriage Preparation Resources

Congratulations on your decision to get married! As you move forward through the next few months or years, many things will demand your attention a reception plans, in-law requests, fiance requests, financial questions and how your relationship will change with your future spouse as you move through engagement and into marriage. One person asked me this as I was going through this process:
The wedding and reception last one day, the marriage lasts a lifetime. Which should you focus most of your energy on?€

With that in mind, your first call should be to the pastor of the parish you want to get married at. Most pastors are used to working long distance with couples. Most will require at least one face to face meeting. Most will ask you to go through a marriage preparation program, either at their parish, or in the parish/diocese you are currently living in. Once you find out what type of program the pastor (at the church you will be married at) wants you to attend, talk to the pastor at the church you are attending here. Find out what programs are offered. If the church you are attending here does not offer what is required, look to neighboring parishes, or call the diocese for information. In the Diocese of Tucson, nearly all marriage prep is handled by individual parishes, who will welcome all seeking marriage preparation into their programs. The one exception is Engaged Encounter, which is a movement within the diocese.

Catholic Engaged Encounter:
www.engagedencounter.org


The mission of Tucson Catholic Engaged Encounter is to promote and encourage preparation for a lifetime commitment to sacramental marriage and family life.  Tucson Catholic Engaged Encounter offers a unique and personal experience for each couple that enables them to reflect on their individual lives and couples lives. Through writing and dialogue, each couple discovers for themselves God’s vision of sacramental marriage and family life.

For Information & To Register:
Juan and Gina De La Ossa,
Local Diocesan Coordinators
Tucson, Arizona (520)-904-5147
tucsonengagedencounter@gmail.com 
http://arizonacee.org/tucson/


Here are a few options that are used at various parishes in our Diocese:

FOCCUS:
www.foccusinc.com

Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding, & Study. This is a Marriage Preparation program used by some parishes. Each partner takes a 156-189 question survey and then marriage preparation is customized to the needs of the couple.

For Better & For Ever:
www.marriageretornocpr.org

A marriage preparation program which continues through the first year(s) of marriage covering: Family of Origin, Finances & Career Planning, Marital Communication, Interfaith Marriage, Parenting, Couples who are living together, Blended Families, Prayer, Marital Spirituality,…

Marriage Resources

Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Catholic Marriage!
For Every Couple | Preparing for Your Marriage | Caring for Your Marriage

Marriage Encounter

www.wwme.org/

If you are looking to Explore, Rediscover and Reconnect in your marriage, get away from everyday distractions and focus on each other at a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend.  The Encounter Weekend is a positive and personal couple experience, offering a loving communication technique that helps couples deepen and strengthen their relationship with each other and with God.

For Information & To Register: 
Call 520-477-2121 or visit www.wwmearizona.com.

Para los fines de semana en español, por favor visite
Encuentro Matrimonial Mundial, 
www.emm14.org,
928-210-3162

Tucson
Father Raúl Valencia
520-294-2694
raulvg2@hotmail.comTucson/Yuma
Alejandro & Fatima Carlos
928-210-3162

Retrouvaille
www.rosatucson.org/

The primary goal is to provide help for couples who live in the disappointment and pain of marriage problems. The weekend provides a safe setting, encouraging couples to learn communication in marriage in a respectful manner. The post-weekend phase of the Retrouvaille program is as critical to a couple experiencing marital problems as the initial weekend experience. Hurting marriages cannot be healed in one weekend. Restoration takes time. The post-weekend sessions provide support as couples discuss concepts of the importance of communication in marriage, intimacy, and many other topics. Today's unchallenged acceptance of divorce suggests only limited support for marriages. Retrouvaille is a program that is solely dedicated to providing the necessary support to help save marriages.

ROSA Information & Registration: 

1-800-470-2230 or local 1-520-216-0360 4003@retrouvaille.org

10 Great Dates

www.marriagealive.com
Combining fun dates and marriage education skills, this video curriculum gives couples time-out to build their marriage and enrich their relationship. You will also need the book, 10 Great Dates to Energize your Marriage.€

Retorno Couple Prayer Retreat 
http://marriageretornocpr.org/

Marriage Retorno means turning toward God as a couple. The goal of Marriage Retorno is to provide an atmosphere, a context, in which the couple can open themselves, both as individuals and as a couple to a dialogue with God through Scripture. It is a weekend prayer experience for husband and wife, facilitated by a married couple and a Catholic priest. It provides participating couples with an opportunity for a renewal of their relationship as a couple with God. 

For Information & To Register: 

Kathie and Kevin Stogsdill, 520-722-2931, stogskk@mindspring,com, or marriageretornocpr.org

 

Parenting

Parents Role€“ Even Teenagers Do Listen
It's important information to share with parents. While the National Directory for Catechesis calls them the "primary educators of their children,"€ a better term might be "primary influencers." The latest studies don't make parenting any easier but it does prove the importance of setting boundaries.
Writing for USA Today, Kim Painter used several studies including the latest on media use by the Kaiser Family Foundation
http://www.kff.org/entmedia/mh012010pkg.cfm.


She discovered kyds who had limits on being plugged in€ for three hours or less were better in a variety of ways. Teens with a bedtime of 10:00pm or earlier were less likely to be depressed or consider suicide. Teen drivers whose parents set and enforced rules were less likely to speed, get in crashes, drink and drive, and use cell phones while driving. In fact €œTeens whose parents set rules also smoke less, delay sex and do better in school. She also offers some help for parents who desire to set limits.


Tips on limiting screen time €“ http://www.commonsensemedia.org/blog
Tips on teen safe driving - http://www.research.chop.edu
Help teens get more sleep - http://www.sleepeducation.com/Topic.aspx?id=53
Kim’s article can be found at Your Health
http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/painter/2010-02-08-yourhealth08_ST_N.htm